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Being Kind Is As Good For You As It Is For Others

Being Kind Is As Good For You As It Is For Others

They say: “It costs nothing to be kind.” And it is true!

This is one of the most profound things I've ever heard and the most meaningful things I've taken on in my life. Not always with complete perfection … but I try.

We have no idea what is going on in anyone else's life … on a grand scale or in one particular bad moment.

So when a customer is upset, it's rarely just about the files they can't download or them misunderstanding your offer.

Or when the person in the parking lot flips you the bird when you make an innocent mistake or even when they are completely in the wrong ….

Or when your partner is a little grouchy when they come home from work and you take that on as something personal.

When we get into our defensive mode, it does nothing to help the situation. And really, just makes it worse. Every. single. time.

Step back and hear what they are saying – even when it's expressed without direct words. Don't make it about you.

Help that customer resolve their issue; issue a refund if necessary. Don't even address any personal attacks, just deal with the issues kindly and professionally. Better yet, outsource all your customer support to a 3rd party who won't take it personally and can deal with it professionally.

For the uptight drivers, I usually flash a peace sign or wave … but if they're really mad, I do nothing. No need to provoke. And the reverse it true, when someone else messes up, be kind. Mistakes happen and yes, you could have died … but you didn't. Be grateful.

I haven't experienced a grouchy partner in a long time, but you know what I'd do if I had a partner who came home grouchy? If he was receptive, I'd rub his back, get lost in the healing feeling of touch and patiently allow it to work it's magic on the grumpmeister. Then we'd both be happy and connected once again.

There is something about humanity where we feel we don't want to be in a one-down position and I agree. I'm not going to kiss the boots of any a**hole. But I'm never going to stoop to his level either. It costs me absolutely nothing to respond with kindness and get on with my day. But it costs my peace, sense of self and lowers my vibration when I decide to also be the a**hole.

Always be kind – it's as good for you as it is for others. And if you can't do it, have someone else handle it for you. Which may mean buying a massage for your grouchy partner.

P.S. if people are truly unkind and consistently horrible, the best thing you can do is cut them out of your life quietly and without fanfare. To me, making a silent exit is the epitome of kindness.

Be kind to yourself and others.

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Topics include:

  • Being Kind Gets You Nowhere – or Does It
  • How Tiny Action Can Make Huge Impacts
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  • Why Kindness is So Important
  • Why the World Has Become Less Kind

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If You Spend Money On Learning Something New – Do It Right!

If You Spend Money Learning Something New – Do It Right! 

If you’re going to spend money to learn something new, why not do it right?
 
 

Remember a little while ago when I talked about investing your education dollars wisely? So many of you (and no, I cannot include myself lol…because this is the one bad habit that I do not have), buy stuff and do nothing.

Or do it half-heartedly.

Or worse, think you know more than the instructor or coach that you trusted to give your money to, so you do it differently.

I’ve told you guys the story about my stand-up comedy class. Where I fully and wholeheartedly dedicating myself to doing what my expert teacher told me to do, no matter how painful it was. And trust me, it WAS painful. Only about 20% off the class did this…the rest just gave up for whatever reason.

Well, here’s another example. This is from last year, when my boys and I went axe (ax for the Americans) throwing for the first time. We were given specific instructions on how to do it.

RESULT – This was one of 3 bullseyes for me. My youngest son got 4. My oldest (please don’t tell him I told you this), didn’t get any and you could see he wasn’t following the instructions.

And of course, part of that is natural physical ability that is tough to change without repeated practice. Because gosh, ask anyone who has tried to teach me to swing a golf club or shoot pool and how good a student I was.

If you’re going to spend money, immerse yourself fully. Do what your instructor or coach says. Once you see some results, you can adjust the plan and make it better. Until then, you’re just wasting your time and money.

P.S. If you haven’t seen my stand-up routine or watched the video where I talked about the process of going from no experience to 5 mortifying but fun minutes on stage, you can read that here.

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Want a Happy and Successful Life – Come to DGAF Island

Want a Happy and Successful Life?
It's Time to Come to DGAF Island

Recently, I sent out a promo for a PLR package on “How to Stop Worrying What Other People Think About You” and I know this is a HUGE thing for a lot of people…caring what other people think. It keeps them from being themselves, from trying new things and from getting what they want out of life.

I don't know why, but most of my life I've been blessed with DGAF-ness. I have many other shortcomings, but this doesn't seem to be one of them.

Even in my formative years in 8th and 9th grade where people spread rumors about me, causing most a large part of the school population to avoid me and sometimes taunt me, I didn't care much about what they actually thought about me. I was certainly upset and it had an effect on me, BUT I saw their shallowness and inability to think for themselves was their own problem.

How people feel about me has nothing to do with me.

Of course, if I'm an a**hole, I should probably self-reflect on that for a bit. But for the most part, any negative feelings people have about you, stems from issues they have with themselves.

And of course, it goes the other way. Any negative feelings we have towards others are usually our own issues creeping up.

In the end, all we can do is be who we are and be that proudly. Take care of yourself and not only worry less about what others think…also stop worrying about what to think of others. DGAF the easiest way to live happily and successfully…and co-exist with others.

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Don’t Let Comparison Sabotage Your Success

Don't Let Comparison Sabotage Your Success

Don’t compare yourself to others. You’re probably comparing yourself to an illusion.

We look at people and assume they are successful. They may be in some areas, but they may not be in the areas in which you want to be successful.

And the problem today is that social media makes it easy for us to make this mistake in perception. There are people who have huge followings, but if you're in this to make money, they may not be making money. They may not have yet learned how to monetize.

So, don't worry about what they're doing or trying to follow what they're doing. There's no sense in comparing yourself to others.

But you can observe and see what might fit in with your own business plans…but know your own business and understand what will work there. 

You're here for your own development. You will keep bettering yourself and learning from what you're doing. You have a different journey, different values, and different goals, so stay focused on that.

Just look at social media and see people doing great things. Be happy for them and go do your own great things. 

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Personality Traits of Great Leaders (free PLR Article)

Personality Traits of Great Leaders
(free PLR Article)

Great Leaders - Personality Traits

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​Article: Characteristics and Personality Traits of Great Leaders

​​​​Whether you think that leaders are born or made - or a bit of both - there are still some characteristics that distinguish leaders from others. Have you wondered if you or someone you know is a natural leader? Are you interested in learning some characteristics of good leadership? Here are some personality characteristics that tend to go with effective leaders.

Task-Oriented

Are you the kind of person who likes to get things done? Do people come to you and ask you to do something for them and know you'll do it? Not everyone is task-oriented, but those who are may end up being effective leaders. Being task-oriented means being a "doer," the kind of person who focuses on getting something done and not stopping until the task is finished.

Task-oriented people generally follow through. This is important in a leader, because leaders have definite goals to reach and people to lead, and people will stop following you if you don't get things finished.

Also, task-oriented leaders do not need "babysitting" to get something done. They can take initiative on their own - the task itself is motivation.

Honest Self-Image

Leaders tend to be pretty honest about their weaknesses and strengths, but not to the point of letting either one take over. For instance, a leader can balance between recognizing his weakness and not letting that stop him/her, and a leader can see his/her strengths without getting conceited. Those in leadership positions may find that they garner more respect when they are honest and "transparent" about their flaws than if they pretend to be perfect.

People Person

A leader tends to be a people person - someone who derives lots of energy from being around people. Such extroverted personalities make great leaders, but introverts are not barred from leadership, either. You can have a love for people and be introverted; you just respond differently to interacting with others.

In other words, you can be a "people person" even if you find yourself tired of leading at the end of a day. Extroverts and introverts can both be motivated by a love for people and their wellbeing.

"Infectious" Joy

Have you ever been around someone who just seems happy with life in general? If a person shares an idea or thought and seems really happy about it, do you feel like joining him or her? Leaders tend to exhibit this kind of infectious joy that draws other people to them. Positive-thinking leaders have a zest for life that compels other people to join them.

The general consensus is, characteristics of a good leader can be in-born or learned, or a bit of both. If you don't have all of these traits naturally, you can learn many of them. No two leaders are the same.

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Become a Better Leader Through Example

Become a Better Leader
by Setting and Example

Lead by Example

The old-fashioned way of leading was more of an authoritarian type of figure, but study after study indicates that a leader that fosters gratitude and appreciate for her team members gets better results. This translates into more productivity and team loyalty, making a leaders job much easier.

Here's a quick article that provides food for thought. Listen or read below and then continue for more thoughts on teaching leadership skills to your audience.

​​​How to Lead by Example

​​​It’s hard to argue with a leader who rolls up his or her sleeves and helps the team get the job done. No one can challenge such commitment to the team. Leading by example is one of the best ways to manage people because it shows you are part of the team.

This doesn’t mean a leader should do everything for the team. There are managers who mistake leading by example with interfering with its members. The team will learn to resent a leader who simply does everything for the team. Besides, who has that kind of time?

The idea of leading by example is to take on some of the tasks or fill in for team members who are not available, etc. Sometimes, it can be just giving guidance to members who are stuck and showing them some of the steps. Then, let them take on the rest and come to you with any questions.

Leading by example also entails being honest with the team. You need to take responsibility for your actions, and ultimately, you are responsible for the actions of your team members. If one person is slacking off and you don’t meet a deadline because of it, your management is going to approach you about the problem. It won’t matter if you defend yourself and state that your team member was the one responsible for being late. In fact, this will leave your management with the impression you are being petty.

After you take heat for members of your team, you may need to take disciplinary actions against those members. After all, they have to know they messed up. But, it should be dealt with one-on-one. Some managers feel they should let the whole team know what is going on and will deal with the situation in the team scenario. This is a personal preference, but some members may be more sensitive to being called out in front of the group.

The best way to lead by example is to make sure you keep up-to-date with what is going on with the group and the work they are doing. This doesn’t mean micro-managing them. It just means knowing what tasks they are performing and whether they need any help from you or any materials to get their job done quicker.

It’s rare that a team does not respect managers who get involved. These are managers that care about the team succeeding and wants to help everyone in the group advance.

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Elevating Others to Improve Your Leadership Skills and Results

Elevating Others to Improve Your Leadership Skills and Results

Elevate Others to be a Better Leader

The old-fashioned way of leading was more of an authoritarian type of figure, but study after study indicates that a leader that fosters gratitude and appreciate for her team members gets better results. This translates into more productivity and team loyalty, making a leaders job much easier.

Here's a quick article that provides food for thought…

​​Be a Leader by Letting Other People Shine

​​As a leader, you are looked upon to make serious decisions. These decisions often affect others and are not always popular. It goes with the territory of being a leader, but being a GOOD leader isn't about imposing your will on others. It's about cultivating a team that works well together and makes progress together.

​What if you can approach your leadership style in a way that could become a bit more popular with the people you lead? If you elevated people, this ​makes them want to work harder and they'll be willing to follow you just about anywhere. 

A few ways to elevate your team:

  • Value and listen to all ideas and contributions from your team.
  • Recognize and publicly acknowledge your team member for ideas you implement.
  • Focus on your team members strengths, but be a ​positive and constructive source to help them strengthen their weaknesses.
  • ​Celebrate victories together and use those celebrations as an opportunity to bring a social aspect to your team.

​Of course, you need to make sure your appreciation of your team members is genuine and they should feel truly valued. You should also make sure you're aware of all your team members and their accomplishments. Some team members are quieter and their contributions can go unrecognized. Be the leaders who sees and elevates all members of the team where it's deserved.

In the end, when you approach your leadership from a position of gratitude and appreciation, it comes back to you in productivity and appreciation of you as a leader.

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Help Your Clients Be Leaders in Their Community (or Be One Yourself)

Help Your Clients Be Leaders
in Their Community (or Be One Yourself)

Becoming a Community Leader

If you need ideas to become more involved in your community or you help your clients with their leadership skills, there are plenty of opportunities to get started. Helping your community is rewarding in so many ways and can help bolster your personal and professional reputation as well.

Listen to the quick article on becoming a community leader below and keep reading for tips on working with your clients. 

​Why and How to Become a Community Leader

​You may be a great leader at work. People come to you to help them with their problems, and your suggestions lead them to good solutions. Perhaps you are skilled at running teams. Why not use your leadership abilities to help out your local community?

Most communities need help in some capacity. And strong leaders are too few and far between. This is not to say that people aren’t willing to help out. It’s just that they often don’t know what kinds of help is needed.

We often defer things to our municipalities thinking that our tax dollars are going to handle the necessary resources for the community. However, these municipalities don’t have enough money. This could be through bad management by the elected officials. Or it could be they don’t get enough in tax revenues from their collections to implement the necessary programs. It’s always a debate because taxpayers complain they are already paying too much in taxes.

Communities usually have needs that stretch the abilities of the municipalities. There are only so many dollars available before having to hit up the taxpayers again. This is never a popular position for elected officials. Therefore, community leaders are needed to step up and find ways outside of the municipalities to provide for the communities in an efficient manner.

One way to accomplish this is to seek out funding from foundations. It’s usually easier to obtain this type of funding than to tap into governmental grants. If you decide that there are funds available, make sure you read through the guidelines before seeking to fund. These foundations receive many requests, and they automatically reject applications that don’t follow the guidelines.

It may be worth it to find training on how to proceed with foundation funding. Check your local library for programs available as well as online inquiries. Some will charge a small fee, but this skill will be worth it when you try for your funding. It can be the difference between getting funded or not.

Another possibility is to seek out crowdfunding online. While this can be a great means to get your initiatives funded, it has become popular, which means there is more competition for funds.

Knowledge about funding initiatives for your community will set you apart from others. Most people will defer to their local municipalities or state governments. These same people are often left wondering why nothing ever gets done in their communities.

Notes from Alice....

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Alice Seba
Alice Seba
Your Partner in Easy Product Creation

Journaling to Stay Motivated

Journaling to Stay Motivated:
Why and How to Do It

Journaling for Motivation

If you need tips for motivation or you help your clients get motivated to achieve their goals and improve their lives, journaling can be a very effective method. Jotting down your thoughts, what you learned, ideas and other progress can help you get to where you want to be. 

Listen to the quick article on following through below and keep reading for tips on working with your clients. 

Why Journal to Get Motivated?

Think back to the last time you had a surge of motivation. Try to remember how it made you feel. What was going through your mind then? If you can’t remember, that’s okay. Just be ready for it when it happens again. If you do remember or find it’s happening again, considering recording your thought processes in a journal.

Sometimes, when you can jar your memory on how you got motivated or stayed motivated, you can reproduce that again. If you record your feelings and actions in a journal, you can simply refer to the journal anytime you need to get that back.

You can also record positive affirmations in your journal for the days where you aren’t as motivated. This way when you refer to it, you’ll have more juice to flame the motivational fire. Positive affirmations are shown to be quite effective in helping people get the ball rolling.

Consider using an actual paper journal rather than recording online. Documents tend to get lost online, and people often forget. With a physical journal in front of you, it will show itself at every moment. This way when you need that push, you can simply open up the journal and start reading. However, if you feel that you can make it work with an online journal, go for it.

You can also record motivational tips from others into your journal that you find. This gives you more to draw from when you have a need to motivate. Sometimes, these tips can happen in the strangest places, so make sure you have a way of capturing if you don’t have your journal with you for some reason.

Another benefit to keeping a journal about your motivations is you could eventually turn it into a book and sell it. Self-help and motivation is a huge topic for both eBooks and courses. If you think there is already enough material on the subject, think again. People will buy multiple books on the subject, even if there are similar concepts covered from one to the next. If there is repeat information, people treat that as a reinforcing factor. Also, the fact that you are drawing from true situations that you experience will go a long way when producing your book. People love true stories about motivation.

Don’t worry about what you write in your journal. The key is to keep consistent with it. If you write something that doesn’t make sense or is silly, either disregard it or remove it from your journal.

Notes from Alice....

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Your Partner in Easy Product Creation

Help Your Clients Follow Through to Achieve Their Goals

Help Your Clients Follow Through
and Achieve Their Goals

Help Your Clients Follow Through and Achieve Their Goals

If you help your clients achieve their goals and improve their lives, follow through is always a big issue. Many people start with the best intentions, but fall flat when it comes to follow through. Many will begin, but stop as soon as the going gets tough.

Listen to the quick article on following through below and keep reading for tips on working with your clients. 

Following Through - Is It in You?

Some people can accomplish anything they set their mind to. They define what they want, and they go for it. They are highly driven people who get most of what they want out of life. Then, there are those who seem to be drifting and never get anything accomplished. These people seem to have a difficult time following through and often don’t get what they want.

People who struggle with following through may have a problem of getting bored too easily. They may even reach a milestone or two, but then the thrill is gone, and they move onto something else. It’s just the way they are. However, it can hold them back from being what they want or getting what they want out of life.

If you find yourself to be one that has difficulty following through, ask yourself why. You want to figure out what is holding you back from accomplishing your goals. If you truly have the passion, you may need to push harder than others who get things done easily. You may want to find others who can hold you accountable.

Be honest with yourself if you are like this. If it is true, then you may want to think twice about starting your own business, even if that is something you’ve wanted to do. If you start one, you are going to be put in a situation where you need to get things done, and you will need to know what needs to be done in the first place. If you truly have a desire to own a business, consider partnering with someone who has the capability of following through and you can each bring your skills to the table. 

There is nothing to feel bad about if you are faced with this situation. It is who you are and is part of your personality. Just know that you need to compensate for it in some way. You can do that by getting help from others or if some technology can help, use it.

The internet has made it quite easy to obtain the help you need. You can outsource many of the tasks that you may get bored with. This way, all you need to do is manage the outsourcers. If you struggle with even this task, you could outsource that as well. There are plenty of people who can manage projects online. The great part about this is if one person doesn’t work out as expected, you can easily find others who can step in.

Notes from Alice: How to Work with Your Clients

I believe it's possible to develop the skills of follow through. Sometimes it's a matter of discipline and overcoming fear of failure (or even fear of success) or just figuring out what is holding you back. But like the article above mentioned, sometimes it's who you are...you don't always follow through. 

When I first started my online business, I was big on follow through. I started something and kept working until I was finished. But over time, I got tired of that, so I did exactly what the article above said...I compensated in other ways. I focused on coming up with ideas and hiring people to implement them. I love coming up with new product ideas, marketing plans, etc...but I had attending to all the small tasks, so now I have a team to do that. 

If your clients are having trouble following through, here are a few strategies you might employ:

  • Have them analyze why they don't follow through. Do they get upset at rejection? Are they frustrated when they hit a stumbling block? Do they feel they don't have enough time?
  • Once they know what is causing them to give up, they can look at a few solutions:
    • Learning to become more disciplined and ensure they follow through. Maybe they need to break tasks up into chunks, set a timer or something else that will keep them focused in smaller bursts. 
    • Find a way to compensate. Whenever my kids get upset about something and are ready to throw in the towel (this happens often), I ask them to stop for a moment and remember, "There is ALWAYS a solution to every problem." Adults sometimes need this reminder too. If they hit a stumbling block, can they take a break and then come back to do some research on how to get around it? If they feel they don't have time, can you help them evaluate where they can prioritize their time better?
    • If it's just fear holding them back, suggest they break up their goals into smaller chunks. So instead of saying they're going to launch a product or lose 50 pounds...break up those goals so that there are small milestones that are easy to reach. 

We all have our own strengths and weaknesses...and while we can work to improve ourselves in specific areas, sometimes it's just a matter of changing our focus and finding new ways to achieve what we set out to do. 

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